If you are unsure about which boundary to set, what is the best course of action?

• A. Ask the other person to decide for you.
• B. Seek supervision or policy guidance to clarify appropriate boundaries.
• C. Ignore it and proceed.
• D. Delay indefinitely.

Answer: (B)

When you’re unsure about which boundary to set, the safest and most responsible step is to seek supervision or policy guidance. This anchors your actions in established rules and ethical standards, protects the wellbeing of the other person, and helps you avoid crossing limits unintentionally. Consulting a supervisor or referring to organizational policies gives you clear, documented guidance on what’s appropriate, promoting accountability and consistency in your practice.

Trying to have the other person decide for you can put them in an awkward position and doesn’t provide you with a framework for future decisions. Ignoring the issue and proceeding risks crossing boundaries and eroding trust. Delaying indefinitely leaves the situation unresolved and can cause ongoing uncertainty. In short, turn to supervision or policy for a clear, principled direction.